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بِسمِ
اللهِ
الرَّحْمَنِ
الرَّحِيمِ Allah,
in the name of, the Most Affectionate, the Eternally Merciful |
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Your
Questions & Comments Don't suppress questions!
Questions are good for your intellectual health!!! |
آپ کے
سوالات و
تاثرات سوالات
کو دبائیے نہیں!
سوالات
ذہنی صحت کی
ضمانت ہیں!!! |
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اردو
اور عربی تحریروں
کو بہتر دیکھنے
کے لئے نستعلیق
فانٹ یہاں سے
ڈاؤن لوڈ کیجیے۔
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assalam alaikum sir, today my question is on anger management... there are
many situations when we are not at fault actually but we are the sufferers of
someone else's fault or corruption... now the person who is getting angry
knows that we are not at fault, still since we are weak/dependent so he can
say anything and we have to listen and bear with it....what should we do in
this??? July 2011 |
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Wa alaikum us salam wa Rahamatullah The method I use in such cases is that I always expect
the worst from others. When he does so, it is according to my own
expectations so I am not frustrated. Normally, the people behave well better
than my expectations and I remain very happy due to that. We cannot control
other faults but we can manage our own expectations. Another way is proactive management of affairs. We
should expect other's faults / corruption well in advance and devise our
action plan to prevent these things. For example, when I send my driver to
bring something, I always expect that he will bring something wrong. So I
give him detailed information about the desired product and also ask him to
go to the shop and call me from there. Then I talk to the shopkeeper and
explain him what I need. In 99% cases, this technique works and if it still
goes wrong in 1% cases, I ignore such mistakes. I hope this technique may
help you in managing your anger on other's faults. Wassalaam Mubashir |
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مصنف
کی دیگر تحریریں Quranic Arabic Program / Quranic
Studies Program / علوم
القرآن
پروگرام / قرآنی
عربی
پروگرام / سفرنامہ
ترکی
/ مسلم
دنیا اور ذہنی،
فکری اور نفسیاتی
غلامی
/ اسلام
میں جسمانی و
ذہنی غلامی
کے انسداد کی
تاریخ / تعمیر
شخصیت
پروگرام /
قرآن اور
بائبل
کے دیس میں / علوم
الحدیث: ایک
تعارف / کتاب
الرسالہ:
امام شافعی کی
اصول فقہ پر
پہلی کتاب کا
اردو ترجمہ و
تلخیص
/ اسلام
اور دور حاضر
کی تبدیلیاں / ایڈورٹائزنگ
کا اخلاقی
پہلو سے
جائزہ / الحاد
جدید کے مغربی
اور مسلم
معاشروں پر
اثرات / اسلام
اور نسلی و
قومی امتیاز / اپنی
شخصیت اور
کردار کی تعمیر
کیسے کی
جائے؟
/ مایوسی
کا علاج کیوں
کر ممکن ہے؟ / دور جدید
میں دعوت دین
کا طریق کار / اسلام
کا خطرہ: محض ایک
وہم یا حقیقت / Quranic Concept of Human Life Cycle
/ Empirical
Evidence of Man’s Accountability
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