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بِسمِ
اللهِ
الرَّحْمَنِ
الرَّحِيمِ Allah,
in the name of, the Most Affectionate, the Eternally Merciful |
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Your
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آپ کے
سوالات و
تاثرات سوالات
کو دبائیے نہیں!
سوالات
ذہنی صحت کی
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اردو
اور عربی تحریروں
کو بہتر دیکھنے
کے لئے نستعلیق
فانٹ یہاں سے
ڈاؤن لوڈ کیجیے۔
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Assalam alaikum, I am facing a problem these days. The more I study and try to
understand and follow your Personality Development Program (PDP), the more
resistance I face from my ownself. it is as if I am doing something and my
innerself is not letting me do it...it is very angry...I try to press it down
forcefully but its too strong for me....I fear that sometime I may react on
my innerself and that reaction will be very severe.iam in inner pain... this is not the only problem. there is another
bigger problem coming forth. I feel that iam a very big sinner and I have
done the more gravest of sins. I used to consider adultery
as a very big sin, n now I come to understand that some sins of personality are
even bigger than
adultery. what good is it that if we save us from adultery
n shirk and yet we indulge into graver sins? I am a hypocrite...many times I
feel like this....I think I am a Muslim, but in real I am a hypocrite. fooling myself and others that I am a nice person...every good
that I do, I do evil bigger than that...how can I ever re-pay that negative
balance....Allah is forgiving, Allah will forgive 'if I ask properly' but I am
such an arrogant person I cant even ask for forgiveness....I don't even think
I am wrong....it feels as if I am not a human, I am a satan in human disguise. I feel there is so much to do and I am so little, weak
n corrupted....I consider myself as a building whose
foundations are faulty...how can a such a building correct its faults in foundation
while standing??? I cannot re-live my childhood to correct the faults....I am a bad person all in all...what to do? I think and want to have all the goodness in me...I try
to adopt some of them....but then I realize that there are some things in my
nature which will break me but not make me good....these things stand in
front of me so very often that I wish to kill myself to save me n others from
my own inner evil....what good am I when I am not useful? Fee amaan Allah July 2011 |
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Wa alaikum us salam wa Rahmatullah Your feelings indicate that you've
strong faith and you are not a hypocrite. All of us commit sins and even
grave sins. Actually, it is a Satanic trap that he tries his best to create
hopelessness in us. He focuses on negative sides of our personality and shows
us a gloomy picture. Such feelings might be intensified
because you are facing some personal problems. The only thing you need is to rebuild your hope and
focus more on your achievements in Allah's way. Satan will try his best to
convince you that you are faulty. You should reply to him that although I am on fault but my Lord is very forgiving. Seeking
forgiveness is not a difficult matter. Your condition may be different at
different times, so the ideal time to do so is when the satanic influence is
not very strong. Whenever you feel bored with the PDP, you can start
reading something else e.g. a novel etc. Don't give
Satan a time to influence you. Wassalaam Mubashir |
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مصنف
کی دیگر تحریریں Quranic Arabic Program / Quranic Studies Program
/ علوم
القرآن
پروگرام / قرآنی
عربی
پروگرام / سفرنامہ
ترکی
/ مسلم
دنیا اور ذہنی،
فکری اور نفسیاتی
غلامی
/ اسلام
میں جسمانی و
ذہنی غلامی
کے انسداد کی
تاریخ / تعمیر
شخصیت
پروگرام /
قرآن اور
بائبل
کے دیس میں / علوم
الحدیث: ایک
تعارف / کتاب
الرسالہ:
امام شافعی کی
اصول فقہ پر
پہلی کتاب کا
اردو ترجمہ و
تلخیص
/ اسلام
اور دور حاضر
کی تبدیلیاں / ایڈورٹائزنگ
کا اخلاقی
پہلو سے
جائزہ / الحاد
جدید کے مغربی
اور مسلم
معاشروں پر
اثرات / اسلام
اور نسلی و
قومی امتیاز / اپنی
شخصیت اور
کردار کی تعمیر
کیسے کی
جائے؟ / مایوسی
کا علاج کیوں
کر ممکن ہے؟ / دور جدید
میں دعوت دین
کا طریق کار / اسلام
کا خطرہ: محض ایک
وہم یا حقیقت / Quranic Concept of Human Life Cycle
/ Empirical
Evidence of Man’s Accountability
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