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بِسمِ
اللهِ
الرَّحْمَنِ
الرَّحِيمِ Allah,
in the name of, the Most Affectionate, the Eternally Merciful |
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آپ کے
سوالات و
تاثرات سوالات
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سوالات
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تحریروں کو
بہتر دیکھنے
کے لئے نستعلیق
فانٹ یہاں سے
ڈاؤن لوڈ
کیجیے۔
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1st of each month. Backbiting at workplace Don't hesitate to
share your questions and comments. They will be highly appreciated. I'll
reply ASAP if I know the answer. Send at mubashirnazir100@gmail.com . |
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Dear Brother Aslam U Alakum, Today i have a question related to daily life issues. Its related to back biting. Before puting
the main question i would try to explain the situation. Actually i am working in a services company. Our work
is to provide services to major operating companies. In other words you can
say the operating companies are our customer or clients. So we have to
provide them the services according to the contract and in the mean while we
have to make visit and meetings with them to keep them happy with our service
quality. For this purpose our company arranges service
quality meetings with them and get feedback on our service and
personals. Our company have several departments or
product lines. The department in which i am working is comprised of only
three people. My supervisor, myself and a person working under my
supervision. Because of the nature of our job we have to make frequent visits
to costumers. My supervisor just came last year from another competitor
company and joined us. He does not like me to visit costumers, even its written in my job contract and other departments and
our managers want me to visit costumers. But as boss does not encourage me to
visit so i don’t make frequent visit. As we are the key people to get business and our
attitude can spoil the business also , although i am
dealing with the technical issues but even the we have to be a good
understanding of selling. Every one in our office, my boss's supervisor does not like him.
Now the problem is today i went for meeting to customer as my boss left for vacation
last week. while visiting the customer, one of the
person was not having good comments regarding my boss. He was not happy with
my boss's attitude and there was another person who was not happy with my
boss's attitude. while coming back to office i went
to one of company’s managers office to tell him the outcome of my visit and
meetings. During meeting i got emotional and i told him to get
feedback from customers for my department. Now he knows that in my department
we are only two main people. So he asked my me what do you
mean. Should i get feedback for you i said yes and for other people also. Infact i was trying not to use the name of my boss. In
the meanwhile our companies’ MD also came in the same room. He got stuck in
our conversation and started taking interest. He said tell me the name.
Actually both were trying to push me to utter the situation and name. Because
only they would have the evidence and proof to take action. I told them that i
dont want to back bite anyone but if it is
professional only then i can say name of the person whom the customer is not
happy. they said it is professional because, due to
one person they can’t let 700 people to suffer. Then i told them the name. After that they asked me to tell them the feedback
provided by the customer. In the mean while i did realize that it might be
wrong. so I asked to contact three people within the
customers to get feedback. Now i am sure they will take a strong action against my
boss. if they will not then i will be the person who
will be cursed by my supervisor. Anyways that will be the outcome of today’s talk ..but my problem is not this. My problem is, i am continuously thinking that i might
did wrong i should not do this. ..........The purpose to send you this emails
in detail is know if it was a back biting or not. if
it is then what i should do now. Regards A Brother Doha, Qatar April 2011 |
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Dear Brother Wa alaikum us salam wa Rahmatullah If you tell negative facts about a person to someone in
order to protect that person, it is not backbiting. Backbiting means to
discuss negative information about a person in order defame him. Since your supervisor is making a loss to your company
and you informed your company due to your sincerity with the organization, it
is not backbiting. So what you did was right. In my opinion, you should have
asked respective people to directly talk to the person who complained about
your boss. In such case, you might also be protected, as you've conveyed the
message of your customer. wassalaam Mubashir |
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مصنف
کی دیگر تحریریں Quranic
Arabic Program
/ Quranic Studies
Program / علوم
القرآن
پروگرام / قرآنی
عربی
پروگرام / سفرنامہ
ترکی
/ مسلم
دنیا اور
ذہنی، فکری
اور نفسیاتی
غلامی
/ اسلام
میں جسمانی و
ذہنی غلامی
کے انسداد کی
تاریخ / تعمیر
شخصیت
پروگرام /
قرآن اور
بائبل
کے دیس میں / علوم
الحدیث: ایک
تعارف / کتاب
الرسالہ:
امام شافعی کی
اصول فقہ پر
پہلی کتاب کا
اردو ترجمہ و
تلخیص
/ اسلام
اور دور حاضر
کی تبدیلیاں / ایڈورٹائزنگ
کا اخلاقی
پہلو سے
جائزہ / الحاد
جدید کے
مغربی اور
مسلم
معاشروں پر
اثرات / اسلام
اور نسلی و
قومی امتیاز / اپنی
شخصیت اور
کردار کی
تعمیر کیسے
کی جائے؟ / مایوسی
کا علاج کیوں
کر ممکن ہے؟ / دور
جدید میں
دعوت دین کا
طریق کار / اسلام
کا خطرہ: محض
ایک وہم یا
حقیقت / Quranic
Concept of Human Life Cycle
/ Empirical Evidence of Man’s Accountability
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