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بِسمِ
اللهِ
الرَّحْمَنِ
الرَّحِيمِ Allah, in the name of, the Most
Affectionate, the Eternally Merciful |
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Your
Questions & Comments Don't suppress questions!
Questions are good for your intellectual health!!! |
آپ کے
سوالات و
تاثرات سوالات
کو دبائیے نہیں!
سوالات
ذہنی صحت کی
ضمانت ہیں!!! |
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اردو
اور عربی تحریروں کو بہتر
دیکھنے کے
لئے نسخ اور
نستعلیق
فانٹ یہاں سے
ڈاؤن لوڈ کیجیے
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Friendship with a
person involved in Sin Don't hesitate to
share your questions and comments. They will be highly appreciated. I'll reply
ASAP if I know the answer. Send at mubashirnazir100@gmail.com
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Question: Assalam-o-Allaikum, Salamun Qaulum Mir Rab be Raheem; Dear Mubashir, I hope you are doing all well. I am also fine. However,
there is some problem for which I need your kind advice. I am having a neighbor who is also my nice friend. We have formed an
excellent friendship since last 2 or 3 months and very understanding one.
However, there is something which he
has told me recently one month back and since them I am
psychologically disturbed about this friendship. I am confused as should I
continue or keep this friendship or not. One side I very much want to but on
other side, the secret which he has revealed, compels me to break off with
him. He is having relationship with a woman. Now, being a student of Quran and as you know that I m having a very
close relationship with Allah. This thing is disturbing me a lot. One side, I
want to be friend of this guy because we have every nice understanding and I
want to really have a friend like him because except this thing, he has no
bad habits. However, this issue keeps irritating me and I feel I should break
off with him otherwise Allah might get angry with me because he commands to
not to befriend with those who go against his commandments. My main question to you is, in your understanding: Is he in guilty of
breaking a major commandment of Allah? Is he involved in a Major sin? Can
friendship be kept with such person? I really need your kind advice as soon as possible and easy for you. Best regards & many thanks in advance A friend |
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Wa
alaikum us salam wa Rahmatullah In my
opinion, you should keep friendship with him and try to bring him out of that
rubbish activity. If you'll leave him, it is possible that he may go farther
on that track. Despite
of your all efforts, if he continues, you can break the friendship at a later
stage. wassalaam Mubashir March
2010 |
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Dear
Mubashir; Many many
thanks for your kind advice. Just so you know that I have been trying a lot
to drag him back but he again and again gets back to the track and I am
afraid that this relation will may only end up through a disaster (God
forbid). However,
please let me know about the answer of three main questions I asked u. I
repeat again; My main
question to you is , in your understanding, 1. Is he in guilty of breaking a Major
commandment of Allah? 2. Is he involved in a Major sin? 3. Can friendship be kept with such
person? Kindly,
let me know your opinion/answer whenever u get time easily. Brgds
& many thanks |
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Dear
Brother Assalam o
alaikum wa Rahmatullah The
answers are: 1.
Definitely he is breaking a major instruction of Allah. It is even a sin to
think about it. 2. Yes,
he is involved in a major sin. 3. Issue
of friendship depends on your intention. If the objective is to bring him out
of that filth, there is no harm in that. If there is a risk that you can be affected
by his character, then it should be avoided. If it is just a 'dunya darana'
(worldly) link and you're not deeply involved with him, then it can be kept
with any person. wassalaam Mubashir |
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The guy I
told you,.... finally I was able to persuade him to leave that major sin and
by the grace of Almighty he has repented and also taken oath on Quran that he
would not do that again. April
2010 |
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مصنف
کی دیگر تحریریں قرآنی
عربی
پروگرام / سفرنامہ
ترکی
/ مسلم
دنیا اور ذہنی،
فکری اور نفسیاتی
غلامی
/ اسلام
میں جسمانی و
ذہنی غلامی
کے انسداد کی
تاریخ / تعمیر
شخصیت
پروگرام /
قرآن اور
بائبل
کے دیس میں / علوم
الحدیث: ایک
تعارف / کتاب
الرسالہ:
امام شافعی کی
اصول فقہ پر
پہلی کتاب کا
اردو ترجمہ و
تلخیص
/ اسلام
اور دور حاضر
کی تبدیلیاں / ایڈورٹائزنگ
کا اخلاقی
پہلو سے
جائزہ / الحاد
جدید کے مغربی
اور مسلم
معاشروں پر
اثرات / اسلام
اور نسلی و
قومی امتیاز / اپنی
شخصیت اور
کردار کی تعمیر
کیسے کی
جائے؟
/ مایوسی
کا علاج کیوں
کر ممکن ہے؟ / دور جدید
میں دعوت دین
کا طریق کار / اسلام
کا خطرہ: محض ایک
وہم یا حقیقت / Quranic Concept of Human Life Cycle
/ Empirical
Evidence of God’s Accountability
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