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بِسمِ
اللهِ
الرَّحْمَنِ
الرَّحِيمِ Allah, in the name of, the Most
Affectionate, the Eternally Merciful |
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Personality
Development Program
Contribute
to humanity by develop a God-oriented personality!!! |
تعمیر
شخصیت
پروگرام
ایک
خدا پرست شخصیت
کی تعمیر کر
کے انسانیت کی
خدمت کیجیے!!! |
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اردو
اور عربی تحریروں کو بہتر
دیکھنے کے
لئے نسخ اور
نستعلیق
فانٹ یہاں سے
ڈاؤن لوڈ کیجیے
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Success:
What is it? |
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Success? What
is it? What is the way to it? What are the rewards? Do you have a right to
succeed? The answers to these questions are in this brief article. It is about
success. It is about you and how you can succeed….. All too often
we hear others saying, "Get in line and wait your turn." This idea
is all too common. It isn't the road to success, but rather failure. It turns
our hopes into forgotten dreams. So, we must be on the look out for such
statements, particularly if they are designed to keep us from realizing
success.
Yes, being
successful can spoil some people. They begin to think everything revolves
around them. They become egotistical and, unfortunately, believe only they
have the right answers to every question. The dangers of success have been
written about for years, but that is not the purpose of this article. This article
is about "What is success, the way to it, and your right to be
successful?" It is about you and how you can become a success. …. Success
begins, therefore, first with your instincts to follow logical thinking.
Then, the best way to succeed is to begin with a reasonable plan for realizing
your hopes and expectations. The process is a journey if not an adventure
with surprises on every front. It begins with the first step, however small
even if your goals should change along the way. At least, take the step and
become part of history. I do not
personally think it is necessary to be mean or unethical to be successful.
Certainly, many successful people are mean, closed-minded, and unethical.
When their views are too one-sided, they set the stage for infighting along the
way. The result is unfortunately a lost opportunity to build into existing
organizations new ideas and possibilities. …. To be
successful, to do something that will help others, and to keep a sound mind
in the process, you must be motivated to succeed regardless of the
consequences. You must be willing to work hard when you have to. Are you
willing to take risks? Do you sincerely want the dream of professionalization
to become reality? ….
Remember:
Successful people want to take on professional responsibilities and enjoy
making endless decisions to help others. ·
They are not troubled by insecurities.
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They are convinced of their own worth
and self-realization. ·
They know that responsibility is the
key to becoming autonomous. ·
They expose themselves to risk. ·
They are curious. ·
They ask questions. ·
They listen to other people's
problems. ·
They deliver what they promise. ·
They are ready to seize the
opportunity. ·
They are ready to gamble on their
hunch. ·
They are able to concentrate on what
is important. ·
They have a passion for winning. The problem is
that too often even successful people make major mistakes. They ask for less
than they could get! …. It would have been better (from the beginning) to
have requested for far more than we thought we deserved, and surprisingly we
would have gotten more (and, in particular, respect). It is just good common
sense to prefer a professional who thinks highly of himself to someone who
seems to lack confidence and position. ….. I can't
remember who said the following, but it has an interesting ring of truth.
"He who is waiting for something to turn up might start with his own
shirt sleeves." (Excerpts from a writing of Dr. Toomy
Boone, Courtesy: www.srikumar.com, www.css.edu)
Think about it! · Evaluate your own
personality by the criteria set by the author in above mentioned bullet points.
(Make this evaluation for your own. If you want to share something personal,
send it to us.) · Personality
attributes required to succeed in this test life are also required to succeed
in our real life i.e. the hereafter. Do you agree with this statement? If
yes, take each attribute mentioned above and apply it to the success of
hereafter. If no, state your reasons. Please send your answers through
email to post your comments on this web page. |
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Unit 1: Relation with God & His Prophets In the name of God, the most Beneficent, the
Eternally Merciful | The
Treasure’s Map | The Month of Ramadan: What to achieve? |
The
Prophet’s Love |
The
Basic Premise of the Religion |
Who
is like You? |
Pure
Monotheism I |
Pure
Monotheism II |
Who deserves the Paradise?
Unit 2: Elimination
of our Negative Personality How to get rid of Poverty? |
The Report of Transparency International
and a Hadith |
Justification
or Admitting One’s Fault |
Artificial
Colors of Glamour |
Religious People & Ostentation |
Character
of Ancient Religious Leaders at Jerusalem |
Attachment
to a Group is irrelevant for Success |
Successful
Life | The Revolution Occurred! |
Form
& Spirit |
Jealousy
& Modern Testing Techniques |
How to overcome
Procrastination? | The
Difference between an Extremist & a Moderate Person Unit 3:
Development of our Positive Personality The Quranic Strategy for Personality Development |
How to get rid of Poverty? |
Character
builds the Nation |
The
Sermon of Mount | Success:
What is it? | Success
Secrets | A
Positive Attitude affirms the Life
| Road Block
| Thinking after Writing! |
Trust
is Golden |
Getting
off to a good start |
The Lesson of Arnold Schwarzenegger |
Unlocking
the Gates to Success |
Admitting
One’s Fault |
Top 10 Qualities of Excellence
Unit 4:
Relationship with Human Beings Backbiting |
Suspicion |
Defamation | Examining Others with Suspicion |
Are
you killing your family? Unit 5: Our
Responsibility, Vision & Mission The Love of Prophet Muhammad with Knowledge
| Traditional Mentality
| Strange Similarities between Christian
& Muslim Histories | The Relationship of Revelation & Intellect (Part I)
| The Relationship of Revelation & Intellect (Part II)
| The Problem of Aurengzeb Alamgir |
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