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بِسمِ
اللهِ
الرَّحْمَنِ
الرَّحِيمِ Allah, in the name of, the Most
Affectionate, the Eternally Merciful |
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Personality
Development Program
Contribute
to humanity by develop a God-oriented personality!!! |
تعمیر
شخصیت
پروگرام
ایک
خدا پرست شخصیت
کی تعمیر کر
کے انسانیت کی
خدمت کیجیے!!! |
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اردو
اور عربی تحریروں کو بہتر
دیکھنے کے
لئے نسخ اور
نستعلیق
فانٹ یہاں سے
ڈاؤن لوڈ کیجیے
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Successful
Life |
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The word “successful life” is
considered a synonym for rich and wealthy people. On one side, poverty is
increasing in our society, whereas on other side, the number of rich people
is also increasing. The wealth is apparent from their cars, furniture,
dresses, jewellery, homes, and all other means of life. It seems that we have
got some treasure. In our society, earning money and
even more money has become mission in life of many people. People mostly
think that more wealth is a guarantee for success both here and the
hereafter. I do not want to comment on the success of this world at the
moment. I am more concerned about mentioning the impact of money on our real
life i.e. hereafter. I believe that our readers are engaged or going to be
engaged in this race for the money.
Problems of a
Wealthy Person From the perspective of hereafter,
the real problem of a rich person is that, which was described by Prophet
Jesus (علیہ
الصلوۃ
والسلام): It is easier for a camel to go through a needle's eye, than
for a rich man to enter into the Prophet Jesus is not saying that a
rich person cannot go to the paradise. He is only telling that probability of
achieving the paradise is very low for the rich people. Let us see that how
it works: The first consequence of becoming
rich is that a person is engaged in the race of earning more and more
wealth. Quran describes that it results in negligence and
carelessness. Quran describes this state as “Takathur” which is the
competition to earn as much money as possible. As a result of that, a person
becomes the ‘economic animal’ of Karl Marx. The entire life of that person is
spent in finding new ways of earning and then spending money. (S)he does not
limits his/her desires to the level of necessities and comforts but (s)he
makes it a mission to get everything available to other people. As a result
of that, a marathon starts in the society to raise one’s status. No one
raises their voice against this marathon and it never ends. People love wealth, status, a
wonderful house, shining new cars, meals in five star hotels etc. Negligence
is a definite consequence of these things. It is not possible for a person to
reserve a place in the most beautiful place of paradise by being negligent of
his duty towards God. Competition of this world becomes his / her focus. The
desire to go to paradise finds no place in his/her heart. The heart which
does not desire paradise cannot enter it The second problem of wealth is ‘arrogance’.
Money means purchasing power. A wealthy person can buy almost anything of
value in human society. Everything becomes ‘possible’ for him. As a result of
that, a wealthy person considers himself as capable to do anything. It
results in arrogance and pride. According to a Hadith (Prophet’s saying), a
person will not go to paradise, if there is even minor arrogance in his
personality. (Muslim: 91) This arrogance makes a person disobedient of God.
The perfect example of this arrogance was the Satan, who faced the Almighty
due to this arrogance. Third problem of the wealth is that
a rich person considers it very difficult to spend money only for the
sake of God. Although (s)he feels that it is very easy to spend money
to earn a good reputation in people. It is simply ostentation. It is a kind
of polytheism and the polytheism is not a forgivable sin in the court of
Allah. Another loss caused by the wealth
is that it creates greediness and insatiability. There is no
limit for this. A person tries to get more and more and more. According to a
hadith, if a person is provided with a valley full of gold, he will desire to
get two more similar valleys. After that Prophet (صلی اللہ
علیہ واٰلہ
وسلم) said that it
is only the dust of grave, which can fill the belly of a person. (Bukhari:
6075) This insatiability increases and
increases. As a result of that, a person is unable to differentiate between
the right and the wrong ways to earn money. The next step is that a person
becomes offensive to others. He takes the money of others by unethical means
and collect treasures of gold and silver and hence angers his/her God . At
last he reaches his grave where he has to weep and cry forever. His wealth
does not go with him but it is distributed to his relatives. Another problem of the wealth is
that it motivates a person on overspending. When a person has
money in his pocket, (s)he desires to buy every available item. The Almighty
has declared that the people with this attitude are the ‘brothers of Satan’
(Quran 17:27). From here, the door of spending on unlawful items e.g.
Gambling, betting, prostitution, liquor etc. open to the wealthy people. Another disadvantage of wealth is
that it develops habits of unnecessary ease and luxurious items.
These things become an obstacle in making a person ‘God-oriented’. When a
person experiences troubles, humility and inability, it becomes easy for him
to discover his weakness as compared to the greatness of God. He experiences
God-given inability as compared to God-given blessings. These troubles and
helplessness make it easy for a person to wail in front of God. It is
difficult for a rich person to experience these things.
The Position of a Wealthy
Person The money is not a good or bad
thing in its nature but it possess all the risks mentioned above. Due to this
reason, Prophet (صلی
اللہ علیہ واٰلہ
وسلم) has prayed to
get rid of the test of poverty as well as wealth. اللھم انی
اعوذ بک من
فتنۃ النار۔ ۔
۔ و من شرفتنۃ
الغنی و
الفقر۔ O Allah! I seek
your refuge from the punishment of fire…. I seek your refuge from the test of
wealth and poverty (both). (Bukhari: 6016) Although, it is a reality that the person,
who successfully passes the ‘wealth-test’ and strongly holds the moral
character despite of wealth, the door of highest achievements opens to him.
Developing the habit of spending for the sake of God makes him trustworthy in
the eyes of God as well as other human beings. Helping the poor, getting well
wishes of helpless people, providing support to hopeless people and becoming
a helper of Allah’s religion, all these things take a person to heights of
achievement and greatness. Most of the “Top 10” companions of Prophet,
including his rightly-guided caliphs, were wealthy. It is not a theoretical debate. It
is a practical problem for all of us. Now we have two options: If we want to
become rich, we should never forget about the aspects of wealth mentioned
above. On the other side, a person can opt for a simple life with
satisfaction on the minimum. That person can limit him / herself to the basic
needs instead of obtaining luxuries. This option is apparently difficult but
very peaceful in nature. (Author: Rehan Ahmed Yousfi,
Translation: Mubashir Nazir, Review: Muhammed Umar Khan)
Think about it! · Prepare a list of
major negative implications of wealth on the personality of a rich person.
Add more to those mentioned by the author. · Suggest how a wealthy
person can get rid of the problems caused by wealth. Please send your answers through
email to post your comments on this web page. |
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Unit 1: Relation with God & His Prophets In the name of God, the most Beneficent, the
Eternally Merciful | The
Treasure’s Map | The
Month of Ramadan: What to achieve?
| The Prophet’s Love |
The
Basic Premise of the Religion |
Who
is like You? |
Pure
Monotheism I |
Pure
Monotheism II |
Who deserves the Paradise?
Unit 2:
Elimination of our Negative Personality How to get rid of Poverty? |
The Report of Transparency International
and a Hadith |
Justification
or Admitting One’s Fault |
Artificial
Colors of Glamour |
Religious People & Ostentation |
Character
of Ancient Religious Leaders at Jerusalem |
Attachment
to a Group is irrelevant for Success |
Successful
Life | The Revolution Occurred! |
Form
& Spirit |
Jealousy
& Modern Testing Techniques |
How to overcome Procrastination? |
The Difference between an Extremist
& a Moderate Person Unit 3:
Development of our Positive Personality The Quranic Strategy for Personality Development |
How to get rid of Poverty? |
Character
builds the Nation |
The
Sermon of Mount |
Success: What is it? |
Success Secrets |
A Positive Attitude affirms the Life |
Road Block |
Thinking after Writing! |
Trust
is Golden |
Getting
off to a good start |
The Lesson of Arnold Schwarzenegger |
Unlocking
the Gates to Success |
Admitting
One’s Fault |
Top 10 Qualities of Excellence
Unit 4:
Relationship with Human Beings Backbiting |
Suspicion |
Defamation |
Examining Others with Suspicion |
Are
you killing your family? Unit 5: Our
Responsibility, Vision & Mission The Love of Prophet Muhammad with Knowledge
| Traditional Mentality
| Strange Similarities between Christian
& Muslim Histories | The Relationship of Revelation & Intellect (Part I)
| The Relationship of Revelation & Intellect (Part II)
| The Problem of Aurengzeb Alamgir |
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